In my previous blog I brought the comparison of these two words; then I did proceed to give importance to each one of them. My choice for the best and more important was “Complement”. The reason was because in order to be complimented we have to have some qualities to be complimented. Those qualities take place on us as we become complemented and our talents take rook making us the recipients of the compliments from our pears.
But after reading my own article several times, I am a bit uncertain that the previous blog was correct on its assessment, and that uncertainty was for the following reasons;
1. Do I become complemented because my natural talents come to surface on my mind on their own time, or these talents have to be triggered by an emotional force that brings them to my mind?
2. In other words; does the fruit gets ripe and falls from the tree on its own time, or the fruit can be accelerated of its growth by adding ingredients such as water and nutrients to the ground, as well as temperature and sun light?
3. This seems to be the same dilemma of ‘what came first, the chicken or the egg’. Church goes and such say that the chicken came first because God made the chicken. Scientists say that it was the egg through evolution that came first.
I have to agree with the scientist that it was the egg the one that came first through evolution, but I also like to say that it was God who made possible for the egg to hatch by having all the ingredients around it to make possible such miracle.
In our case of compliment versus complement, I also have to acknowledge that we can’t be complemented (the chicken), without first being complimented (the egg).
A clear example of this is expressed in the phrase, “For every successful man there is a woman right beside him.”
What can we get from that statement? Well, it is clear now that before the man is successful, he must have been complimented by his woman, in order to give him energy to keep going in his struggle to bring greatness to the surface of his mind.
Yes, it was his environment with the ingredients of his surroundings, the temperature of the emotions of his beloved and the assurance of her believing on him that hatched the egg for him and made possible for his greatness to come to the surface of his mind.
It is clear now!
Compliment has to come first!
That is why you have these articles appearing in this blog, Victoria keeps telling Vincent, “Write your knowledge, My Love, to bring clarity to other folks so they can join us in improving our planet. Let us be selfish (your version) and share with them our understanding to live a life full of happiness and wonders.”
On closing I have only one last thing to say, “Please get your Soul-mate, everything in your life will fall on the right place once you have her by your side. It is that simple.