Some people have gone through one divorce or two, or they have never been married but have at least one disappointed love. To all these people promises were broken as the relationship went into oblivion. The aftermath was emotional pain, broken dreams, frustration… anger. All in all this boiled down to feeling cheated as your dreams were broken, consequently lack of trust and suspicion in your department of love occupied your mind for many days, months or even years in your future.
How to trust again?
Yes, how to trust again to bring back love into your life when you partner was disloyal, lied and cheated you, how can you trust anybody again?
This is how;
– You have to realize that things happen in your life for a reason.
– You have to accept the reality that people are different and as they live together they may be growing apart emotionally.
– It is very important to acknowledge the reality of the relationship and do not let your egos to blind you. It is much better to acknowledge that the relationship has run its course and you should part as friends, as a time well spend while it lasted, this way your emotional department will not be messed up for a long time.
– People that cheat are confused folks, they are also weak folks and that is the reason why they cheat. The right way is to keep clean as soon as you realize your relationship is not satisfying you any longer, rather than prolonging the inevitable and holding grouches when the cheating takes place.
Again I like to emphasize that you are your worst enemy, you are created with a free will and it is up to you to take action when things do not go in the way you like them to go, rather than blaming others for your situation.
Even when others are clearly the culprits of your misfortune or broken relationship, it is ultimately you who has to make the choices. Please do not blame others for being the way they are, your situation was part of the lessons you had to learn to get closer to our Creator.
Remember, “Everyone gets what he/she deserves to get”. Anything different is wishful thinking and pie in the sky which is not real.
Follow my philosophy, it is the fastest and most secure way to get to accomplish your dreams to have a wonderful life. You must get your Soulmate.