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Rejection Helps You

In a previous blog I wrote, “Rejection is an illusion created by the emotional weakness of the individual, and that weakness is there because he/she doesn’t think enough of himself/herself.”

The best way to get to the level of feeling this way (and making your emotions strong) is by means of practicing “The Umbrella” theory.

I was wondering why so many people were going through my site, and only few comments were left there for me, and other people to read. Then one of my followers left me a comment that said, “I do not usually leave comments, but your blog impressed me so much that I couldn’t resist stopping a moment to say thank you.”

After this comment I was really curious to know the real reason why people did not usually leave comments on sites. In my investigation I went to other authors' sites and read their blogs and their comments.

One particular author had a blog talking about S.O.P.A. The author was critical of the governments for wanting to police the Internet. To back up his statement he indicated that pirating literature was not such a bad thing, since pirating was, in his opinion, another way of marketing and we (the authors) should welcome it.

I, of course, disagree with him and indicated that pirating is thievery and he was totally wrong about supporting the pirates. My comments were not welcomed, and therefore not approved; furthermore, he blocked me completely.

This will not happen on my site. I want you to express yourself and help me to keep on the right track. In turn, I will do my best to keep this site as interesting as I can.

Rejection does not affect me because I have my ‘Umbrella’ working and protecting my emotions all the time. I like to emphasize how important is to protect your emotions; this is one of the first steps on the road to your dreams. (I do not know any Winner that does not have his/her emotions well protected.)

Winners do not acknowledge rejection; to them this is an exercise on the road to their goals….on their road to better their greatness.



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2 Responses to Rejection Helps You

  1. Penny April 26, 2012 at 8:06 pm #

    I've heard of people posting on blogs, only to be blocked; due to their difference of opinion.  Disappointing!  If a comment section is provided, isn't that for communication?  Could be…both parties…gain a better understanding of the other's point of view.
    While you encourage postings…it might be conceivable that people don't post because they're the ones afraid of rejection.  Hopefully, with your positive messages, they'll learn to use their  "Umbrella", then start sharing.   

  2. Vincent Sylvan April 26, 2012 at 11:30 pm #

    Thank you very much Penny for your response, based on this one and your other responses in some of my other articles, I venture to say that you are very smart and understand my messages right away.      And because of your effort helping to put more clarity to this site, for the whole world to benefit from this important knowledge, I like to invite you to participate.
    Yes, I like you to be also a teacher!
    Please send me a blog of your own and we will insert it in this site with your name on it.
    One condition I like to suggest, and that is that you upload your picture so we can all see your beautiful face.

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